Don't emotionally hold your spouse accountable
for the sins of your parents.
Don't hold your children emotionally accountable
for the sins of your spouse.
Don't react to the person in front of you
because of the way they remind you of someone else.
Don't hurt someone else
just because you have been hurt.
Seek to spread your blessings,
not your miseries.
Having been the victim
of selfishness or cluelessness
obligates you to know better
and give better
to those in your life and care.
It certainly does not
to selfishness or cluelessness
of your own.